If you do great work but don’t have the confidence or know how to sell, price your services, or follow up, you can easily work yourself out of business. Here is a story that illustrates why.

Last week, I saw a sign on a neighbor’s lawn advertising driveway sealing. I needed my driveway sealed, so I called the number.

Mike, the contractor, came over, looked at the driveway and said, “I can do it for $300.”

“Okay,” I replied, and we scheduled a start date.

He then spent parts of two days preparing and sealing the driveway. He took his time, did not cut corners and did excellent work.

When he finished, I said, “Thanks. The driveway looks great.”

“Thank you,” he responded, clearly proud of his work.

Then I started doing the math.

“How many containers of sealer did you use?” I asked. “Based on the size of the driveway, I’m guessing about six containers of blacktop sealer.”

“That’s about right.”

“And that doesn’t include your equipment, gas, preparation time and two trips to my home to apply two coats.”

“I guess I didn’t factor that in,” Mike said quietly.

“You bought the materials, came here twice, prepared and sealed the driveway and only charged me $300. How did you arrive at that price?”

“That’s about what I charged you a few years ago.”

“Did you calculate what materials cost today, how many hours you spent, your overhead and the profit you need to make?”

“Not really.”

I respected Mike’s work and the pride he took in it. He was clearly skilled. But like many talented, intelligent business owners, no one had taught him how to calculate the true value of his time, overhead, materials and work.

I handed him the agreed-upon $300 and then gave him another $150.

“What’s this for?” he asked.

“For the work you did and what I feel it’s worth.”

“You don’t have to do that.”

“I want to because I’ve been where you are. When I started my business, I learned that working hard and making money are not always the same. I did the math, and $300 doesn’t cover your materials, let alone your time and the quality of your work.

“Charge what you’re worth and protect your profit margins.”

“But I’m worried people won’t hire me if I charge more,” he said.

“Some people won’t. If someone hires you because you’re the cheapest, there will always be someone willing to charge less. You cannot build a healthy business by competing with other people who are not making money on every job.”

Mike knew how to seal a driveway. I remember the first time he sealed mine. His father came with him and taught him how to do the job correctly. Mike had learned the craft, but no one had taught him how to price materials, calculate his true costs, communicate value, protect his margins, ask for referrals and turn excellent work into profitable growth.

The real cost of undercharging is not just the money you lose. It is the business you cannot build and the future you sacrifice because no one taught you that doing great work and running a profitable business are two entirely different skills.

Great work creates value. But only the confidence to price it, communicate it and protect it turns that value into a sustainable, profitable business.

Reactions from the LinkedIn Community

When I first shared this story on LinkedIn, it sparked a deeper conversation about pricing, confidence, value and the difference between mastering your craft and building a successful business.

Shrey Bajej observed that many skilled tradespeople overlook the client’s perception of value. When they do not communicate their expertise, they become commodities instead of consultants. The work itself matters, but so does positioning yourself as the expert your clients can trust.

I responded with, “I completely agree. Clients cannot appreciate expertise they cannot see or understand. Doing exceptional work is only part of the responsibility of running a business. You must also communicate the preparation, judgment, experience and attention to detail behind the result. Otherwise, the customer is left comparing prices instead of understanding value.

Being a consultant means helping customers recognize what they are buying beyond the physical work. They are buying confidence, reliability, experience, reduced risk and the peace of mind that the job will be done correctly. When you fail to communicate that value, even outstanding work can look like a commodity.”

Shrey shared that his mother creates exceptional handicrafts but is terrified by the idea of charging what her work is truly worth. He also made another important point. Charging more allows business owners to reinvest in their businesses and deliver higher-quality products and services to their customers.

“I completely understand,” as I began to share my response. “When there is an emotional attachment to something you create, it can become even more difficult and intimidating to charge what it is worth. Your mother is not simply selling handicrafts. She is selling her time, creativity, experience, attention to detail and a piece of herself.

If business owners want to charge more so they can reinvest in their companies, they first need to learn how to sell while honoring their integrity, values, margins and financial goals.

Before we can expect customers to recognize the true value of our products or services, we must be fully convinced of that value ourselves. Customers pick up on our uncertainty. If we sound uncomfortable or apologetic when discussing price, they begin questioning whether the price is justified.

Authenticity must be supported by business acumen. Charge too little and people may diminish the perceived value of what you offer. Clearly communicate the value customers can expect, uncover what that result is worth to them and you may be shocked by how much more they are willing to pay.”

Sometimes the only person undervaluing our work is us.

Ask yourself: How much is your time worth? What is each hour worth? Each day? Each week? Your career? Get clear on those numbers because they need to guide your decisions. When you repeatedly compromise your value and financial standards, you may stay busy, but you will never build the business your talent deserves.”

[Kegorapetse Kgole expanded the lesson by writing, “The real cost of undercharging isn’t just the money left on the table. It’s the future of the business that never gets built. Skill and commercial confidence are two different muscles.”

“That distinction is critical,” I reinforced. “You can be extraordinarily talented at what you do and still struggle to create a sustainable business. Skill produces the work. Commercial confidence enables you to price it, sell it and build a profitable company around it.

Without that confidence, business owners often work longer hours, take on more customers and convince themselves that being busy means they are succeeding. But revenue without healthy margins is not growth. It is exhaustion wearing a business suit.

Commercial confidence is not arrogance, greed or taking advantage of customers. It is understanding your costs, recognizing the value you create and charging enough to continue delivering excellent work without sacrificing your health, family, standards or future.”

Keith D. added another important perspective. He explained that being highly skilled at a trade is entirely different from having the financial discipline required to build a sustainable commercial model. Many business owners focus almost exclusively on delivering the service while overlooking unit economics, client acquisition costs and margin protection. Mastering the craft builds your reputation, but mastering pricing logic ensures that your business survives and scales.

Reputation may create demand, but financial discipline determines whether that demand produces a healthy business.

Finally, Jennifer Kendall shared that most skilled trades overlook the client’s perception of value. When they don’t communicate their expertise, they become a commodity, not a consultant. It’s not just about the work—it’s about positioning yourself as the expert clients trust.

Are you Selling, Serving or Both?

A full calendar is not proof of profitability. Neither is a long customer list, a great reputation or a steady stream of referrals. If every job produces little or no profit, increased demand can actually accelerate the failure of the business.

Business owners need to understand the complete economics of every job. That includes materials, labor, travel, equipment, insurance, marketing, customer acquisition, administration, taxes, unexpected problems and the profit required to reinvest and grow.

Mike did not have a work ethic problem. He did not have a quality problem or a customer service problem. He had a business model and sales problem.

That is what makes undercharging so dangerous. The people most vulnerable to it are often hardworking, honest and exceptionally talented. They care deeply about their customers and take pride in delivering great work. But if they never develop the confidence, sales acumen and financial discipline to charge appropriately for the value they deliver, their greatest strengths can eventually help destroy the business they worked so hard to build.

Where have you seen talented people doing exceptional work but undercharging because they lacked the confidence or business skills to price their true value?

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Creating sales urgency through a raccoon story that shows why customers act when the cost of inaction becomes clear.

A raccoon taught me more about sales urgency than most sales trainings, and reminded me why most salespeople lose sales, benefits and “nice to have’s” never close the deal.

I woke up early this morning, went outside, and started cleaning the grill. One of the few ‘Honey-Do” items left from Mother’s Day. I then noticed something lying on the side of my house.

It was large, furry, and absolutely not part of my morning routine. A very large and confused raccoon.  It needed help, and my two dogs needed to get inside from the patio.

Based on some quick research, seemed it had canine distemper, fatal to unvaccinated dogs, which mine were but they’re also 5 lbs each.

I did not need a full investigation. Then my wife saw it.

She was very clear. “You need to handle this now.”

There was no ambiguity, need for clarification or follow up meeting required. Even the raccoon, lying there, probably understood the action item.

So, of course in less than 5 minutes my wife found someone to  call. To be clear, I love animals, and even seeing this furry guy lying there made me sad, and didn’t want it to suffer, but this was out of my hands. Dealing it was the question.

“Can I safely fix this and save money or is this one of those moments when I need the right professional?”

The woman on the phone said she could remove it for $450. That number made me pause.

Not because the service lacked value. It had plenty of value, especially since my wildlife removal experience is somewhere around nonexistent.

But once price entered the conversation, urgency became math.

She gave me another option. I could remove it myself by first going and buying the right size cage for a large raccoon, then picking it up, putting it in a cage, then in your car, and drive it about one hour from my hour to a place where they could take it safely and humanely.

That sounded reasonable for a nanosecond. Then, I did the real calculation.

The cost was not only $450. The cost was my time. Emotional energy, the risk doing this myself, the disruption of losing my morning, breaking my routine, and killing the momentum of my day.

Urgency stopped everything. Once I evaluated what the problem was really costing me, the decision became easy.

That is the lesson sellers need to understand.

People do not move because you explain your features better. They do not move because your benefits sound impressive. They move when they understand the urgency, implications, and consequences of doing nothing.

For decades, salespeople have been taught to sell features and benefits. Here is what it does. Here is why it is better. Here is how it can help you increase sales, improve performance, reduce costs, or grow faster.

That sounds nice but nice does not always create action.

More sales are nice. Better productivity is nice. Stronger leadership is nice. But what if the company is already overachieving. What if revenue is already strong, the team is outperforming, customers are happy and retained, and leadership focuses on creating a healthy culture?

What do you have then? You need the buyer to recognize what they may not be seeing.

The missed opportunity. The hidden cost. The risk of staying where they are. The consequence of waiting.

The pain they have tolerated so long that it now feels normal.

But pain triggers action. Action creates sales.

The seller’s job is not to manufacture pain. That is manipulation. Salespeople need to help the customer see the truth they may be avoiding, minimizing, underestimating, or can’t see themselves.

What is this costing you now?

What happens if this continues?

Who else is affected?

What does this become six months from today?

What opportunity is being lost because current success has made the problem easier to ignore?

That is where urgency is created with integrity.

My raccoon problem was not about the raccoon. It was about the implications of the situation. The dogs. The disease risk. My wife’s concern.(Put mildly ) The time. The disruption. The cost of doing nothing or doing it myself. And the bigger cost of not doing it correctly!

That is how buyers make decisions today. Not because your pitch was polished. But because the cost of inaction became clear.

Sellers need to stop using the same sales process they have used for the last 100 years. Pitching, presenting, persuading, and hoping the buyer connects the dots is not enough anymore.

Your customers do not buy because you explained your features or benefits better.

They buy when they see what inaction is costing them, why it matters now, and why the decision can no longer wait. If that’s the reaction you get then you know you’re becoming a sales champion.

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Most managers don’t have a people or performance problem. They have a communication problem that destroys revenue, trust, execution, and results.

There are no difficult conversations to avoid. Only poorly led ones, which is why this excerpt from my new book, Coaching Salespeople Into Sales Champions, Second Edition, reveals why more prospects, training, or hires won’t fix performance or results. Better conversations will.

What if you could communicate in a way that builds instant trust, inspires people to embrace your ideas, take ownership, and action; not with push-back or resistance but because they want to?

Fear and resistance disappear when your intent becomes clear and people see the value and benefits they will realize.

Strategic conversations allow you to influence without force, build trust quickly, and align people around a shared vision, goals, and results.

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Departmental silos are not a communication problem. They are a trust problem. Here’s how to eliminate departmental silos in one conversation.

Have you ever depended on another department to get something done, only to feel ignored, frustrated, or completely misaligned?

I have seen this happen in organizations around the world. Smart, well-intentioned people stop working as one team and start protecting their own priorities, timelines, and turf. Before long, collaboration turns into conflict, relationships suffer, and the customer pays the price.

Silos quietly turn smart people into guarded competitive teams, creating slow decisions, duplicated work, broken trust, and a blame culture where protecting your department becomes more important than serving the customer.

Silos are the invisible walls that kill efficiency, trust, innovation, collaboration, relationships, culture and growth.

When teams operate in isolation, goals become misaligned, priorities compete, the quality of work gets diluted, relationships become adversarial, and sales suffer.

The cost is not just operational. It is cultural.

Breaking them down requires resetting relationships, challenging assumptions, and rebuilding how departments communicate, support each other, and work toward shared goals and outcomes.

The goal is to turn silos into synergy, so cross functional teams stop protecting their own turf and start operating as one high performing supportive organization.

Departmental silos are not really a communication problem. They are a trust problem. And sometimes, one courageous conversation is all it takes to begin tearing down the walls.

Here is how to start that conversation to reset and improve relationships.

“What I want for you is to feel that I’m a resource who supports you in achieving your goals. Since we are in different departments and are evaluated by different metrics, I know we have not always been aligned when relying on each other to get our jobs done.

We have different priorities and points of view, and I may not have always given you, and your time, the respect and attention they deserve.

So, I’m asking for your forgiveness and for your help. I would like to hit the reset button on our relationship and how we work together, so we can support each other in achieving our goals. Are you open to discussing this?”

Then, it is time to coach.

1. I would love to learn more about your role. Can you share what your responsibilities entail?

2. How is your performance measured?

3. What part of our work together is most difficult, stressful, or frustrating for you?

4. What do we need to do to work together more productively?

5. When I need your help, what response time works best so I do not create unnecessary pressure?

6. How do you prefer to communicate?

7. How can I best support you?

8. What can we do to maintain a positive working relationship?

9. If we notice an issue or start reverting to toxic behavior, can we agree on a way to address it without offending each other?

Silos do not disappear because leaders tell people to collaborate.

They disappear when one person has the courage to initiate a crucial conversation that repairs trust, and resets expectations that lead to better, caring conversations that focus on supporting each person’s unique and shared goals.

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Meta’s CTO just admitted employee morale is almost the worst it’s been in 20 years. The initial response to fixing morale? Better snacks.

To be fair, the company also discussed communication, career development, travel, events, and giving employees more ownership over their roles.

This is the leadership lesson we all need to hear.

* You cannot resolve a trust problem with perks.
* You cannot improve performance, morale, and motivation with snacks.
* You cannot eliminate burnout with better coffee.

And you cannot improve engagement with another social event if people still don’t know where they stand, what matters most, how success is being measured, are overwhelmed with all the changes and competing priorities, recent layoffs of their peers, or whether anyone in leadership is actually listening.

Morale isn’t created by what companies give people. Morale is created by how managers show up, lead, coach, and communicate.

Clear expectations.
Better questions.
Consistent coaching and unconditional support.
Honest conversations.
Honoring personal motivators and values.

They replace cookies with care and connection.

People do not disengage because the snack drawer is empty.

They disengage when they feel invisible, replaceable, confused, overmanaged, unfocused, disconnected, underdeveloped, or unsupported.

That’s the difference between extrinsic motivation and intrinsic motivation.

Perks may create temporary appreciation and move the needle conditionally, until the perk is gone, and performance and drive slip backwards.

When managers understand each person’s goals, values, priorities, purpose, and desired impact, then align them with clear performance expectations, they ignite internal motivation.

That’s what creates stronger engagement, trust, career fulfillment, and ownership by feeling like they’re making a difference in the work they do, without sacrificing their life and personal priorities.

This is why managers matter more than any engagement initiative because it’s the manager who is the engagement initiative and the morale builder.

A great manager does not wait for HR to launch another morale program.

They ask better questions.

The replace cookies with care.

They clarify expectations.

They remove obstacles.

They coach performance.

They reconnect people to what matters.

They create the conditions where people choose to engage.

That’s why perks don’t rebuild morale. Managers do.

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A trip to Dublin revealed a personal problem that no productivity app, AI tool, or time management system can solve.

I landed in Dublin with two intentions. To deliver my coaching program and connect with people I have worked with over the years, not through a screen, but sitting across from each other where connection becomes deeper.

I reached out to ten clients. These are leaders I respect. People who matter to me beyond the work itself. People I would consider friends.

Every response came back quickly and warmly. Each person said they would love to meet, but they were traveling for work, out of town, or already committed from Friday through Monday, and had no room left to make yes possible.

Out of ten people, only one was available.

The Hidden Cost of Work Life Imbalance

These are not people avoiding connection. These are successful leaders who care deeply about their work and their people. They are the ones others rely on, and yet most were not in one place long enough to meet.

We have become incredibly accessible, but we are rarely available.

Availability requires space to create connection. It requires creating an intentional block of time in a day that is not already spoken for. It requires the ability to pause long enough to be fully present with another person.

Being reachable is not the same as being present.


We walked into a pub and quickly, the conversation moved beyond work into what was behind the work, including family, health, priorities, pressure, people, and life.

There was a depth to it that does not happen when everyone is racing to the next commitment.

We say relationships matter. We talk about trust, culture, family, and connection as if they are central to our lives, but when the calendar fills up, those priorities often lose to what feels urgent.

There is also a quieter cost.

Pictures of our family become our screensaver, as we lose the time with the people we love. It becomes something we plan to make up when things slow down.

They rarely do.

The conversation I had in Dublin reminded me what happens when we create the space for our priorities. People show up more present, more open, and more real.

Being reachable is different from being present. The relationships we value most require time that we choose to protect.

Your calendar is a reflection or work life imbalance or balance. Don’t allow your calendar to become so full that there is no room left for the conversations, activities, and people who matter most. Take charge of your time, and schedule your priorities and activities that honor your goals, priorities and passions today.

The Deeper Financial and Cultural Cost of Work Life Imbalance

As a leader, what are you modeling for your team. What you invest your time in is what you then value the most.

Take a look at your calendar. Is it a reflection of someone who prioritizes their life and protects those activities, or is dictated by every person, problem, request or reaction? Choose. (Here are some questions you can self -reflect on to assess where you are.)

Because if we are always somewhere else, physically, in our thinking, when traveling, we eventually miss being where we want to be the most.

Here’s 8 self-management hacks for you to take control of your life and create the ideal balanced life you want most.

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Care can be your strength, but it can also quickly become your weakness and lead to sales burnout. Most salespeople and managers don’t burn out because customers demand too much. They burn out because they assume everything is urgent, assume deadlines, say ‘yes’ too fast, and create the self-imposed fear and pressure, before asking the customer what they need.

That follow-up and proposal you rushed and promised tomorrow. That, “I’ll get it right over to you,” reaction. All based on this costly assumption.

“If I don’t serve them immediately, someone else will.”

When caring turns into overextending, and becoming a “Yes-aholic,” it violates your boundaries, and impacts customer value, performance, your energy, and quality of life.

Before you assume what customers need and by when, ask this one defining question.

“What’s the latest you need this by?”

Maybe they’re going on vacation and may not need it until next week. This question enforces boundaries, protects time, lowers stress, creates realistic accountability, and keeps the sale moving forward, without burnout.

Great service is not defined by you. It’s defined by the customer.

Watch this video to learn how to care without personal cost, set stronger boundaries, own the sales process, and stop creating the pressure you put on yourself.

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Most salespeople, managers and metrics obsess over how many prospects they reach. Far fewer companies obsess over whether their messaging and approach gives a prospect a reason to respond, and engage. Managers may be measuring how much prospecting their team is doing. The better question is whether your sales team’s messaging is strong enough to earn a real sales conversation.

1. The First 15 Seconds Decide Everything

Most salespeople do not lose the prospect because they called at the wrong time. They lose the prospect because they sound like every other salesperson trying to get through the same door.

The first 15 seconds of a prospecting conversation is not the place to explain your company, your product, your process, your features, your platform, your passion for helping organizations improve, and especially, not the space to waste 15 seconds asking the most ineffective question, “How are you doing today?” That may matter later. It does not matter first. And every salesperson leads with this redundant question, when in fact, no one really cares.

What matters first is whether the prospect hears something valuable enough to pause, think, and want to continue the conversation.

That is where most outreach falls apart. The salesperson opens with what they sell instead of why the prospect should care to listen. They lead with their company, ask awful disengaging, non-compelling questions like, “Are you in charge of,” or start talking about their product, instead of focusing on the prospect’s problem.

They talk about capabilities before creating curiosity. Then they wonder why the prospect says, “Not interested,” or simply disappears.

Prospecting doesn’t fail because people hate being contacted. Prospecting fails because most messaging gives people no compelling reason to stop what they’re doing and listen to you.

If you want more conversations, better meetings, and stronger opportunities, stop trying to get better at pushing through resistance. Start getting better at creating interest by developing your core compelling reasons.

2. What You Think You Are Selling Is Not What They Are Buying

When I ask salespeople what they sell, most immediately describe their product or service. They sell software, cloud solutions, consulting, financial services, marketing, insurance, automation, training, logistics, or technology.

That answer may be factually correct, but it is not strategically useful.

Your prospect is not buying your product or service. They are buying what they will ultimately do for them.

They are not buying cloud integration. They are buying fewer system breakdowns, faster access to clean data, better decisions, stronger security, less manual work, smoother collaboration, lower operational risk, and a business that can scale intuitively without duct tape holding the technology together.

They are not buying sales training. They are buying managers who can coach better to make their people more valuable every day, attract and retain more talent, salespeople who can sell smarter, stronger pipelines, revenue acceleration, more accurate forecasts, healthier, collaborative teams, and cross collaboration with other departments, and better conversations, which lead to achieving record breaking milestones in every area and across the entire culture.

This distinction changes everything.

When you talk about what you sell, you sound like a vendor. When you talk about the measurable result your prospect wants, you sound relevant.

Your product is the vehicle. The result is the destination. Prospects do not get excited about the vehicle until they believe the destination is worth reaching.

3. A Compelling Reason Creates New Interest

Every salesperson eventually wrestles with the same question.

How do I get a prospect interested enough to want to talk with me?

The answer is simple, but not easy. Give them a compelling reason.

A compelling reason is not a clever pitch. It is not a slogan. It is not a feature dressed up in better language. A compelling reason is a clear, specific, relevant statement that creates enough interest for the prospect to want to know more.

The purpose of a compelling reason is to stimulate new thinking. It should interrupt the prospect’s current assumptions and create a possibility they have not fully considered.

That means your message cannot sound like this.

“We help companies streamline operations with cloud-based technology.”

That may be true, but it is forgettable.

A stronger compelling reason sounds more like this.

“We help companies eliminate the delays, duplicate work, and data breakdowns that happen when their systems no longer talk to each other.”

Now the prospect has something to react to. They can see the problem. They can feel the friction. They may even recognize the cost.

That is the goal.

The first conversation is not designed to teach everything. It is designed to create enough relevance and curiosity to earn the next conversation.

4. Your Message Must Pass the “So What?” Test

The fastest way to strengthen your prospecting message is to test every statement with two brutal words.

So what?

If your message cannot survive that question, it is not ready for a prospect.

Let’s use a cloud integration company as an example.

A salesperson says, “We help companies integrate their cloud systems.”

So what?

“Well, it allows their applications to communicate more efficiently.”

So what?

“It reduces manual work, duplicate data entry, reporting delays, and operational bottlenecks.”

Now we are getting closer.

So what?

“It helps leaders get accurate information faster, reduces the risk of costly mistakes, improves productivity, and gives the business a more scalable technology foundation.”

Better.

So what?

“It means your finance team is not reconciling conflicting reports at 10 p.m., your sales team is not working from outdated customer data, your operations team is not chasing information across five platforms, and your leadership team is not making decisions based on numbers nobody fully trusts.”

Now the message has a pulse.

Here is how that conversation might sound with a prospect who is in the market to hire a company to integrate a cloud solution.

The salesperson says, “Most companies we speak with are not struggling because they lack technology. They are struggling because their technology has become disconnected. Data sits in different systems. Teams work from different versions of the truth. Leaders lose time trying to figure out which reports are accurate before they can even make a decision.”

The prospect says, “That is exactly what is happening here. We have Salesforce, NetSuite, a project management platform, and a few internal tools that were built years ago. Nothing is clean.”

The salesperson responds, “That is usually where the real cost hides. It is not just an IT issue. It becomes a productivity issue, a forecasting issue, a customer experience issue, and eventually a leadership confidence issue. When your systems do not connect, your teams compensate manually, and manual work becomes the tax everyone pays for poor integration.”

That is a very different conversation than, “We provide cloud integration services.”

The prospect does not care that you integrate systems until they understand the business pain that disconnected systems are creating.

That is the “So what?” test. It forces you to move from what you do to why it matters, from feature to impact, from product language to prospect language, their life, and the wider issues beyond the impact of their team but of other departments, and challenges that surround achieving their goals and improving company engagement.

5. Make the Message Personal to the Person You Are Calling

A message that matters to a CIO may not matter the same way to a CFO, CTO, VP of Sales, COO, or Head of Customer Experience.

This is where many salespeople get lazy. They create one message and use it on everyone. Then they blame the market when it does not work.

A CIO may care about system stability, security, technical debt, integration architecture, and scalability. A CFO may care about cost control, reporting accuracy, risk exposure, and operational efficiency. A VP of Sales may care about customer data, CRM accuracy, sales visibility, renewal risk, and speed to respond. A COO may care about workflow breakdowns, productivity loss, process inconsistency, and the hidden cost of manual work.

People buy for their reasons, not yours.

Same solution. Different ears. That means you need several compelling reasons, not one.

If you sell cloud integration, your message to a CFO might sound like this.

“We help finance leaders eliminate the reporting inconsistencies and manual reconciliation that make it harder to trust the numbers behind critical business decisions.”

Your message to a VP of Sales might sound like this.

“We help sales teams stop working from incomplete customer data, so reps, managers, and leaders can see the same account reality before more than 10% of opportunities are lost.”

Your message to an operations leader might sound like this.

“We help companies remove the manual workarounds that slow teams down, decrease productivity, and waste hours each day, when disconnected systems force people to chase information instead of serve customers.”

Each message speaks to a different personal and professional consequence. To make it even more personal, you can ask, “What outcome would make you look great/like the hero?” The more personal, the more impactful.

That is how you earn attention. You stop making your message about your offering and start making it about their world.

6. Use Proof, Pain, and Measurable Outcomes

The more specific your message, the more credible it becomes.

General statements create general interest. Specific outcomes create real curiosity.

“We help companies improve efficiency” is weak.

“We helped a 400 person services company cut weekly reporting time from two days to three hours after integrating their CRM, finance, and project management systems” is stronger.

Numbers matter because they make the benefit visible. They also make your message harder to dismiss.

Use measurable results when you can. Use percentages, time saved, risk reduced, costs lowered, speed improved, errors eliminated, meetings reduced, or revenue protected. When appropriate, use testimonials, but only with permission and only when the proof is relevant to the prospect you are calling.

Unfortunately, pain is a greater motivator than pleasure. Fear of loss is more powerful than a desire to gain.

People are often more motivated to eliminate a problem than pursue a benefit. That may not sound inspiring, but it is reality. You don’t go to the doctor unless your ill or in pain, outside of a yearly checkup. Most companies do not look for help when everything is working. They look for help when the pain becomes too expensive to tolerate.

Your job is not to manufacture pain. Your job is to name the pain they may already be experiencing with enough accuracy that they feel understood.

That is the difference between manipulation and relevance.

A strong prospecting message might sound like this.

“We are speaking with companies that invested heavily in cloud platforms, but now their teams are stuck with disconnected systems, duplicate data, manual reporting, and leadership meetings where everyone is debating the numbers instead of making decisions.”

That message works because it is specific, observable, and emotionally familiar to the right buyer.

It does not beg for attention. It earns it.

7. Test, Refine, and Use Your Compelling Reasons Everywhere

Your compelling reasons do not need to be perfect before you use them. They need to be clear enough to test.

The market will coach you quickly. Prospects will show you what lands, what confuses them, what creates curiosity, and what gets ignored. Pay attention to the words they repeat back to you. Those are clues. Pay attention to the questions they ask. Those questions tell you where interest is forming.

The best salespeople do not wing their message. They build it, test it, refine it, and keep sharpening it until it consistently creates better conversations.

These compelling reasons should not live only in your cold calls. Use them in emails, voicemails, LinkedIn messages, presentations, proposals, follow up notes, webinar titles, landing pages, and referral requests.

Your message should create a consistent thread across every touchpoint.

When you do this well, prospecting becomes less about convincing strangers to give you time and more about helping the right people recognize a problem they already care about solving.

That is the point.

Your prospecting is not failing because prospects are impossible to reach. It is failing because your message may not be giving them a reason to care.

Change the message, and you change the conversation.

Change the conversation, and you transform calls into opportunities that close.

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Disengagement in the workplace is now at 85%. Gallup reports only 15% of employees worldwide are engaged, the lowest level since 2020. And AI is greatly contributing to this. Pew Research found 52% of workers are worried about AI’s impact at work, while 33% feel overwhelmed.

Here’s the one personal conversation around self-care and well being every leader needs to have now to improve trust, performance, engagement an re-ignite motivation. Thanks for a great conversation, Chuck Thokey!

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When was the last time you were in a restaurant that was fully connected. Not to Wi-Fi but to each other. Stop reaching for your phone and start reaching for the moment you’re in. Otherwise you’re find yourself scrolling away the conversations, relationships, and moments you’ll never get back.

Phone Addiction and Relationships

We Scroll Away Connection One Dinner, One Conversation, and One Relationship at a Time.

It’s been over five years since my wife and I took a vacation, just the two of us. Italy last September was our destination. I remember the first night in Lake Como where we were having dinner. We were sitting outside, talking, eating, and taking in a picture-perfect view.

The restaurant was full. The conversations around us had that natural hum of people who were actually present with one another. Then I noticed something as I looked around.

Not one person was on their phone.

Not one table had a phone sitting next to the plate.

Not one person was half listening while scrolling.

Not one person was checking a message, recording the moment, posting the moment, or escaping the moment.

They were just there.

Couples were talking. Families were laughing. Friends were leaning in.

People were eating slowly, drinking slowly, listening fully, and treating dinner like something more than a transaction between hunger and the next task. Where going out for dinner in the states can take an hour or so, three hours later, people are still enjoying their time and each other.

I have always tried to put my phone away when I’m with people, especially over a meal. But this was different.

This wasn’t one person showing discipline. This was a restaurant full of people treating presence as normal, where having your phone on the table was a sign of disrespect.

It made me think about how often we mistake access for connection. We keep our phones near us because we tell ourselves we might need them.

A text might come in.
An email might matter.
Someone might need me.
Something might happen.
A post I might miss.

But most of the time, nothing truly urgent is happening that’s more important than what we’re doing now. We are just leaving the door open for distraction and calling it responsibility.

What struck me most was not that Europe is better than the U.S. at being present, putting friends and family first. That’s too easy, and not entirely fair.

The real lesson is that culture teaches people what to normalize.

In some places, a meal is still treated as an experience. A conversation is still treated as worth protecting.

The person in front of you is given more importance than the screen beside you because presence is not just a personal discipline. It is a signal.

It tells the people with us, “You matter enough for me to be fully here.”

And the absence of that signal sends a message too.

Put the phone away. Not face down. Not next to the fork. Not within reach like some tiny glass emergency room. Away.

Because the people we love and spend time with should not have to compete with a device for our attention.

The best moments in life rarely announce themselves.

They usually happen in ordinary conversations, over dinner, when no one is performing, no one is scrolling, and everyone is finally where they are.

Otherwise, we step over wheat really matter in these perfect moments of time we call life.

Here’s an article I wrote about what I’m grateful for to help reduce phone addiction, scrolling at the dinner table, and improve being present with people.

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